Posts

, ,

5 ways to think if you really want to travel

Traveling is done in all sorts of ways. Short term, long term. Group, couple or solo travel. You could trek, fly, sail, catch trains or just drive across to different destinations. Anyone can travel.

If you’re really seeking adventures, you’ve caught the travel bug, you need to explore or just crave traveling the world, like me, I wanted to let you know in the ways I think, hopefully they may help.

 

 

I’m not trying to change your thought process, nor am I telling you what’s right and how you should think. I simply strongly advise a few things on the mindset of travel.

If you are serious about pursuing long term travel, or even just fancy backpacking some new destinations this year, here is what I think.

You need determination, an open mind, accepting a challenge, knowing its not all going to be easy peasy.

Have drive in yourself.

It’s designed to test and teach you, to open your mind to the rest of the world. No bullsh*t.

 Enjoy everything

Sometimes you just have to take things for what they are. See the good in everything and just enjoy yourself. There is no point finding fault. Keep your mind open and positive.

No, unfortunately this isn’t possible all the time, if only however try and keep a strong mind from the get go. Focus your attention on the good stuff that’s happening. Take in the moment.

While traveling you will see a variety of different things and feel many emotions.  Enjoy even the bad times, one day, they won’t seem all that bad. Let your life just work itself out and go with it. Trust me, it makes it all a lot easier.

 

Listen to your gut

Everyone should listen to their gut however when you travel, especially on your own, you have to listen and trust yourself.

It’s important to value your own thoughts and opinions as well as others. Try and feel a vibe from someone and be honest with yourself about situations.

As much as i’m really not trying to sound like some life guru, or even just your mother, seriously.. learn to listen to yourself. You have to be able to make decisions, make choices and be active on your own.

 

Do what you enjoy and do it with passion

I’ve always been quite strong in regards to what I want to do and why.

I’ve always been able to pursue what it is I love doing through massive amounts of support and self determination. I’ve had no hidden help or secret funds, just passion.

Traveling, dancing, photography, having new experiences, learning, blogging, bartending, exercising, socialising and simply going out for brunch are some of the simple things I love doing.

Guess what, I live my life doing that.

Whatever it is you enjoy, go and do it.

 

Get your priorities right

This really got me when I started working abroad at 18 in Crete.

I really learnt was was important to me. My family & friends who sustained their love and time. The people that genuinely wanted to support me in all sorts of ways.

I needed to decide what I wanted to spend my money on and what I didn’t.

I had to decide what I wanted for myself. I didn’t want to spend my time and money on booze or belongings. I wanted experiences and flights, adventures and new friends.

When you travel, you learn what your priorities are. You see the world at such a large scale you really how insignificant you are to the whole world.

Try and focus on what it is you really want for yourself.

If you really want to travel, you’ll make it work.

 

Be active

Monday morning dive • Malaysia

There is so much to do going on in the world. We all need to be able to chill, relax and rest, I’m all for that never the less go out and do things.

Legit, just get up and go explore. The fulfilment of experiences over belonging is unexplainable.

Spend your money on experiences and make memories. Not everything has to cost a lot.

 

So there we are. My 5 ways to think if you really want to travel. These are just my thoughts and opinions and any feedback is welcome!

Like this read? Make sure to check out my 18 helpful tips to traveling alone by clicking here!

, ,

What traveling does to the mind. Part 1.

The mind.

The powerful seat of human consciousness. In control of our likes, dislikes, passions, worries.

It’s can do odd things, some we enjoy, some we dont. It’s just as important to keep the mind as healthy as the body.

Our brains determine the way we think, how we act and define who we really are.

I’m no doctor, no scientist and no one to tell anyone how they should think or what mindset to be in.

What I can tell you is that when you travel, see the world, leave your comfort zone and experience once in a lifetime opportunities and make unbelievably beautiful memories… That gives you one happy and positive mindset.

Whatever we do throughout are life, the experiences we build give us our intelligence and humour. Our faith and belief, our likes and dislikes and even our worries and problems. Most of us want to be the best person we can be. Some more to their chosen career, to their partner, their family, some to their faith and religion.

for-blog

 

During my current trip I have a lot of time to think, to appreciate, the take in and to explore different emotions. I’ve already met so many fascinating and different individuals from all over the world.

Thanks to these awesome guys for coming on the trek with me. All staying in the same dorm in the city, we just decided one morning to all go together. A farther and two sons from Hawaii and 5 elephants including a one year old baby running along with us. Glad I shared the experience with such humble and down to earth guys.

From locals living in small Thai villages with hardly any running warm water and just a small hut for the family. I’ve met business men from America, students from Ireland, doctors from Germany, bartenders from Australia, firefighters from Hawaii, crazy yoga guys from Canada and backpackers from all over.

Everyone I met has their own reasons to travels, their own stories, different backgrounds and exciting adventures ahead. There seems to be certain things that we all have in common. The mindset that travelling gives you.

Exploring the jungle in Chiang Mai. First time I've actually been alone since doing the trip. Watched the sunset up in the mountains and swam in the waterfall. Felt perfect

Where do I start?

The feeling of freedom, relaxation, appreciation, survival, positivity, strength, passion and of course wunderlust.

I knew I wanted to travel for years. It’s my parents I have to thank for the travel bug. My beautiful mother and farther. I was 9 when they took us for our first real travelling experience. Funnily enough it was too Thailand, where I’m currently writing this blog post. They took my younger sister and I backpacking around the beautiful country. Being a little girl left with only memories and experiences. We later did 4 weeks in Canada and also done a couple of weeks in all sorts of places from India -France. They gave me the travel bug.image

 

As as mentioned in other blogs I flew off for my first season abroad when I was 18 and this only enchanced my passion to see the rest of the world. I decided to start with Europe. My first big solo trip. Doing only 5 weeks around the continent was enough for me to realise
this is what I had to do. I wanted to visit everywhere, you name it, it would appeal to me on some way.

images-2

So, back to basics. The mindset of leaving.

When you leave your hometown with a backpack and no real plans. It’s a strange feeling.

Personally, I felt excitement, hope, anxiety and strength.

No one wants to leave loved ones for a crazy amount of time. All of us want to keep our favourite comforts, whether it’s our bed, our pets, our car etc..

You have to leave everything behind and go.

It’s a pretty scary time, and majority of people who I speak to tell me they get nervous, they get homesick sometimes and question what life would be like if they just stayed at home continuing with there daily way of living.

Funnily enough this lasts till you get on that plane. Your survival mode kicks in, the excitement that this is really happening, the realisation you’re one of the few people at home who is actually pursuing there dreams. Your mind is strong. You need to keep this up.

Unknown

For those traveling solo like myself. You ask yourself whether you made the right choice going alone. Are you ready for this.

Let me tell you, regardless of where you go, who or what you leave behind, the worry and determination your experiencing. You’ll be fine. If you can get into the correct mindset or the feeling I’ve been mentioning. If you stay positive, calm, strong and healthy.. You can do anything.

During this trip my faith in humanity has been increased. Meeting people from all over the world in major capital cities, to tiny local communities up in the mountains. They want to talk, meet, help and get to know you. Watching locals work so hard to feed there loved ones despretatly working to cook or sell. I know risks and what can happen but I’ve actually felt pretty safe and comftable my entire trip. It feels like there is always someone to help you. No ones angry, no ones stressed or worried.photo_mind

Almost every single person I’ve met including the locals has been happy, relaxed and positive. They look at the better side of things, they tell you honest opinions with a lovely kind nature. People are going on with their lives doing what needs to be done. Deep down people just want to help and do what needs to be done. For me, this reminds me to be appreciative of my journey.

It gives me the mindset I want to have.

12345916_1655141768060327_798612918_n

Like this post? Check out ‘The truth about solo travel’ by clicking here!