The mind. One of the most powerful things. It’s can do odd things, some we enjoy, some we dont. It’s just as important to keep the mind as healthy as the body. Our brains determine the way we think, how we act and define who we really are.
I’m no doctor, no scientist and no one to tell anyone how they should think or what mindset to be in.
What I can tell you is that when you travel, see the world, leave your comfort zone and experience once in a lifetime opportunities and make unbelievably beautiful memories… That gives you one happy and positive mindset.
Whatever we do throughout are life, the experiences we build give us our intelligence and humour. Our faith and belief, our likes and dislikes and even our worries and problems. Most of us want to be the best person we can be. Some more to their chosen career, to their partner, their family, some to their faith and religion.
During my current trip I have a lot of time to think, to appreciate, the take in and to explore different emotions. I’ve already met so many fascinating and different individuals from all over the world.
From locals living in small Thai villages with hardly any running warm water and just a small hut for the family. I’ve met business men from America, students from Ireland, doctors from Germany, bartenders from Australia, firefighters from Hawaii, crazy yoga guys from Canada and backpackers from all over.
Everyone I met has their own reasons to travels, their own stories, different backgrounds and exciting adventures ahead. There seems to be certain things that we all have in common. The mindset that travelling gives you.
Where do I start?
The feeling of freedom, relaxation, appreciation, survival, positivity, strength, passion and of course wunderlust.
I knew I wanted to travel for years. It’s my parents I have to thank for the travel bug. My beautiful mother and farther. I was 9 when they took us for our first real travelling experience. Funnily enough it was too Thailand, where I’m currently writing this blog post. They took my younger sister and I backpacking around the beautiful country. Being a little girl left with only memories and experiences. We later did 4 weeks in Canada and also done a couple of weeks in all sorts of places from India -France. They gave me the travel bug.
As as mentioned in other blogs I flew off for my first season abroad when I was 18 and this only enchanced my passion to see the rest of the world. I decided to start with Europe. My first big solo trip. Doing only 5 weeks around the continent was enough for me to realise
this is what I had to do. I wanted to visit everywhere, you name it, it would appeal to me on some way.
So, back to basics. The mindset of leaving.
When you leave your hometown with a backpack and no real plans. It’s a strange feeling.
Personally, I felt excitement, hope, anxiety and strength.
No one wants to leave loved ones for a crazy amount of time. All of us want to keep our favourite comforts, whether it’s our bed, our pets, our car etc..
You have to leave everything behind and go.
It’s a pretty scary time, and majority of people who I speak to tell me they get nervous, they get homesick sometimes and question what life would be like if they just stayed at home continuing with there daily way of living.
Funnily enough this lasts till you get on that plane. Your survival mode kicks in, the excitement that this is really happening, the realisation you’re one of the few people at home who is actually pursuing there dreams. Your mind is strong. You need to keep this up.
For those traveling solo like myself. You ask yourself whether you made the right choice going alone. Are you ready for this.
Let me tell you, regardless of where you go, who or what you leave behind, the worry and determination your experiencing. You’ll be fine. If you can get into the correct mindset or the feeling I’ve been mentioning. If you stay positive, calm, strong and healthy.. You can do anything.
During this trip my faith in humanity has been increased. Meeting people from all over the world in major capital cities, to tiny local communities up in the mountains. They want to talk, meet, help and get to know you. Watching locals work so hard to feed there loved ones despretatly working to cook or sell. I know risks and what can happen but I’ve actually felt pretty safe and comftable my entire trip. It feels like there is always someone to help you. No ones angry, no ones stressed or worried.
Almost every single person I’ve met including the locals has been happy, relaxed and positive. They look at the better side of things, they tell you honest opinions with a lovely kind nature. People are going on with their lives doing what needs to be done. Deep down people just want to help and do what needs to be done. For me, this reminds me to be appreciative of my journey.
It gives me the mindset I want to have.